For most people, life isn’t what you thought it would be, or it hasn’t exactly turned out how you thought it would. This is completely normal. Our expectations are but old programming and the new paradigm is trusting the 5D higher power at all costs, which will lead you down paths you thought you would never trek. Still, that doesn’t take away the sting of feeling your life isn’t where you want it at this point. The good news is there is a lot you can do to improve your life even if things are largely out of your control.
First I’ll say this: I’m not talking about the Law of Attraction. I’ve spoken before how I don’t exactly agree with using the Law of Attraction in daily life. I do believe we can attract positive things into our lives, however, I also see that it often gets misinterpreted and ends up hurting people. First, the Law of Attraction can be used by negative people and narcissistic personalities who want to attract chaos, confusion, distrust, pain, and hardship. They do this through extremely toxic and negative thinking patterns and behavior including, negative intentions, gossip, subconscious suggestion, intimidation, groupthink, defamation, assumption (assuming the worst), etc. This only generates more karma which leads us away from peace, love, and harmony. Not good.
Secondly, we have to allow others to have free will. Even if their decisions break our hearts, even if they are hurting themselves and others, and even if we will not get what we want in the end, it is the right thing to do karmically to allow everyone to have the freedom of choice. Forcing your will on others through the Law of Attraction acts much like dark magic or spells (which, in reality, have little to do with VooDoo, frog’s legs, and toad’s eyes, and more to do with very strong will and action; ie: selfishness) which will only come back around to you in the form of karmic drama with a capital D.
Third, what you desire in the here and now may have nothing to do with your true life path or life’s purpose that your higher power wants for you. In other words, you think you want that amazing-on-the-surface job but in reality, landing it would cause an unintended trail of cause and effect that actually leads you away from what you are meant to do here. You can’t see this in the here and now, but the Universe knows and will direct you away from even seemingly good things because it will not be good (or best) for you in the end. What you think you need is usually not what you actually need. Unfortunately, most of us cannot see into the future so trusting this process is difficult.
That said, I do believe sometimes we have to take matters into our own hands when we are faced with negative life situations. In other words, we can’t always take a passive role. This is where transmutation of energy comes in. Hear me when I say this: this process is extremely simple and anyone can do it! The only caveats are: you must have a pure, positive intention, and you must allow for free will and your higher power to change the course if needed. It is not forcing, it is assisting. The problem is, most empathic people who are highly sensitive to energy are used to being bullied or affected by energies (collective/astrological, or individual) rather than taking charge of them. You have the right to take charge when it is affecting you. You do not need to accept negative energy.
To transmute energy, do this:
First, you have to get very clear on what it is that you want. The outer world is a reflection of your inner world. If you are experiencing hardships, you first have to understand that everything is mirroring the other. In relationships, this can mean one person is frustrated about something (even if it has nothing to do with the relationship) then the other picks up on this and becomes frustrated too, then a fight ensues or there grows a distance, and well, you know the rest. “What’s wrong?” then “nothing” is a typical response. Back and forth, back and forth. Once you understand you have the power to control this situation to a large degree, you can see that you do not need to mirror someone else’s feelings because it causes a constant tug of war and push-pull energy. If they are angry/sad/frustrated, you remain confident in your positive energy. Do you see how you are not forcing them to feel better, but you are saying, I will not mirror you because it will lead us into more problems? That’s what I mean.
Secondly, you can project your own desires from within yourself. The difference between this alchemy and magic is that you are not projecting your desires onto someone else, you are only projecting what you desire for yourself, from within. This is not imposing desires onto others, it is projecting confidence in the situation from yourself. Others then pick up on this (we are all energetic beings, even if some do not seem sensitive to energy) and begin to act accordingly. Free will of course plays a role so if they do not change, that is okay and up to them. But them not changing will no longer hold you back. When you are in the presence of a confident, positive person, guess what happens? You pick up on it and want to be like them. Again, you must have a positive intention or it can become a cancerous situation where negativity and control keeps spreading.
If you really want to dive deep, you can also easily do remote energy clearings on others and yourself in your relationship or situation. Again, this is not about imposing your desires onto them. This is a way to clear to air, clean the slate, and come back into balance. To do this, imagine each of you (however many people or circumstances are involved), as light beings. This means visualize each of your chakra centers. If you are energetically sensitive, tap into the present chakra energy. You will likely feel darkness, pain, resistance, angst, or blankness if there are problems between you. What you will then do is visualize all blockages being removed. You may need to do this over and over until it feels clear. Then imagine your chakra centers coming together to form a new, healthy energy. What do you want the healthy new energy to feel or look like? How can the situation improve for all parties? Imagine that and inject it back into each of your energy centers. Do this until you feel better energetically.
These are powerful forms of manifestation. Again, empathic or highly sensitive people are used to being directed by energy, rather than taking control of it. However, as long as you have a positive intention, and allow others to ultimately make their own decisions, you can create a more positive energy template in which a new, clear vision can emerge. Release toxic energies in relationships or situations (this usually entails forgiveness and a desire for a fresh start) and trust the new energies you have generated.