As with all of my blog posts, I want to offer you a new perspective on the things you as an empath experience in this life. I want to give you a 5D lens for the 3D phenomena you are currently undergoing in your life lessons. Only when you see beyond the 3D and glimpse into the 5D can you understand there is a rhyme and reason, a strategy, and a meaning behind all of the pain.
Nearly every other blog you will read on my site is about ways empathic people can be successful in such a world. A world full of illusions, projections, and smoke and mirrors. No one set us up for success — we almost always have to seek it out for ourselves. Abuse, in all of its incantations, is a method narcissists use against empaths to keep you drained, sick, and not living your true soul’s purpose — plain and simple. Once you become aware of this, you can stop the cycles of sickness and stress.
Abuse is a topic near and dear to my heart because this reality keeps presenting itself over and over in the lives of the empathic and highly sensitive people that I work with — and have worked with over the years. Before you recognize this, you will think you simply don’t belong here, there is something inherently wrong with you, and you will live in a state of unease every day and not really be sure why. “Why doesn’t this feel like my real home”, you will wonder.
The answer to that question is because you don’t belong in a world full of abuses. It takes a very strong and determined soul to overcome the everyday, omnipresent abuses that society has come to accept as “normal”, or worse, “acceptable”. Yet, here you still are — in spite of the pain, the displaced anger, resentment, and frustrations of others, the many ways you have been punished simply by virtue of being yourself, and the many ways narcissistic personalities draw you into chaos and confusion. What should be a straight line becomes nothing but zigzags and you wonder why it is all so complicated when the truth is so damn easy.
One form of abuse that is rampant and yet completely overlooked (no offense #metoo and #timesup) is legal abuse. And because of the age we are living in (the Age of Aquarius), you must understand that being dragged into a lengthy, expensive, and scary court battle by your karmic partners means much more than legalese. It means you are on the right path. If you weren’t, they wouldn’t have targeted you in the first place.
Court abuse, or legal abuse, is another form of domestic violence that is defined as unfair or improper legal action initiated with selfish or malicious intentions. In other words, it means someone has engaged you in a court dispute for purposes of hurting you, rather than solving a legitimate legal dispute. It means you can be pulled into legal battles over meaningless or frivolous matters, which will drain your finances, emotional and physical health just so someone can have control over you. Just so someone can say, “see! I was right all along — even the court agrees with me” or “Ha ha — I got you back where it hurts.” It means false accusations, strongarming someone with the law so they cannot succeed or have proper living or working accommodations, and it means inflating stories or lying so that you as a victim becomes the perpetrator. All in all, it is using loopholes and lies to get your way and sabotage someone else.
In most of these instances, lawyers will have no clue that the opposing party is using legal abuse against you. They see it so often, it is considered standard. People lie every day in court. People hurt one another by the hour through the legal system. Why would your life or feelings mean anything? Chances are, no one but you will recognize what your perp is doing and trying to explain it to others is like you are speaking a different language. In other words, you will sound paranoid to someone who has never been targeted themselves. (Side note: there are resources out there, however, for those enduring this — including how to catch your abuser in lies and how to defend yourself to the full extent).
If we examine court abuse from a 5D perspective, we see that the empathic people enduring this right now (or, who have, or will) are absolutely in line with the prophecies about these times:
“I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves. Be on your guard; you will be handed over to the local councils and be flogged in the synagogues. On my account you will be brought before governors and kings as witnesses to them and to the Gentiles. But when they arrest you, do not worry about what to say or how to say it. At that time you will be given what to say, for it will not be you speaking, but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.” (narcissists targeting empaths for their spirituality; your higher self/higher power/intuition will show you the way)
“Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child; children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death. You will be hated by everyone because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved. When you are persecuted in one place, flee to another. Truly I tell you, you will not finish going through the towns of Israel before the Son of Man comes.” (undoing of karma; start your new life away from these people)“When you are brought before synagogues, rulers and authorities, do not worry about how you will defend yourselves or what you will say, for the Holy Spirit will teach you at that time what you should say.”
“Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” (aka: karmic relationships and karma being undone)
A narcissist views the world through the lens of “how much can I get away with legally” or “how can I use the law to prove my point?” The law can be used in a fair and just way, but not when there is narcissism present. It will only be used as a means of intimidation. Once you say yes to your spirituality and no to the 3D world, there will be consequences. And because narcissists view the court as the highest authority, they will take you there. They do not understand there is another court, a cosmic court, that they will be taken to later on. When you are pulled into these legal battles, trust that you are protected and you have done the right thing by saying no to their abuses once and for all. You will succeed. And when the legal battle is over, you will have resolved your karma with this person.